Friday, July 5, 2013

Living with Rett Syndrome

Abby lives with Rett syndrome.  

It bothers me to hear someone say or write that Abby suffers from Rett syndrome.  I want to point out that her life isn't all about suffering.  Rett syndrome presents many challenges and frustrations.  There are times when it feels all-consuming.  But Abby is not defined by her medical symptoms.  She is so much more than Rett syndrome.

Our family lives with Rett syndrome. 

This past spring was a challenging time for Abby.  An abnormal blood test result led to a very long, horrible lesson in "leave well enough alone."  At her doctor's suggestion, we took her off her medication which controls some nervous system symptoms, such as biting her hand, hitting her head, and head-banging.  That did not go well.  Her doctor prescribed another medication, which only made things worse.  Much worse.  

If I try to describe it in words, I cannot do justice to the extent of Abby's misery.  I began writing daily emails to her doctor, describing the symptoms, watching our sanity sinking, about to take our whole family with it.  Abby was suffering from Rett syndrome for several days.  And we were struggling to help her.

With the approval of the specialists at the Rett clinic, Abby is back on the original medication now, and generally back to being her typical self.  She still lives with Rett syndrome.  She still has to navigate obstacles every day.  She still has to go to several medical appointments this summer.  She still needs full assistance with the activities of daily living.  But she is not suffering.  She is living. 


Abby was thrilled to attend her Grade 8 graduation ceremonies recently, mostly because she got to be all dressed up and be the centre of attention!

Her really big news, though, is her new eye-gaze device which has finally given her a voice to tell us what's on her mind.  Now that we've got ourselves back on solid ground, I look forward to writing my next post about Abby's words.


Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Let's Talk!

With Rett syndrome, communication is tricky.  I know that most girls Abby's age are talking or texting for much of the day.  She's a teenager now and teenagers are social creatures. 

Recently, I created a Prezi for her peers at school, to help them understand how to communicate with Abby.  Now that they "get" the basics of Abby101, they are asking to hang out with her and that has changed the dynamics of her school experience.

Although I still think regular brain function would be simplest, I'm excited about the new developments in eye-gaze technology!  Next week, Abby will go to her official assessment for an augmentative communication system.  It's been a long process with a lot of homework involved, but there is the potential for Abby to say things she could never express through traditional eye-gaze communication.  

Abby got to try out the new technology at the O.R.S.A. family conference last year.  What amazed me most was how quickly she could respond to the questions.  You get so used to the response delays, you can forget that the main problem is apraxia.

Beyond the possibilities for Abby and others on a personal level, this new technology is opening up renewed interest in scientific studies of communication and cognitive function. The world won't have to take our word for it anymore.  We will have proof.  These people with Rett syndrome are smart, they understand everything, and they have a lot to say!