Saturday, August 24, 2019

2019 Registration and Abby Update

This year's Run4Rett will be the 15th time Team Abby has rallied together to raise funds and awareness for the Ontario Rett Syndrome Association! Although this is very short notice, we hope to see many of you there. If you can't come, please consider a donation to the cause. Your support is appreciated.

Date: Sunday, September 15th, 2019
Time: 10 a.m. check-in
Place: Richmond Green Park, Richmond Hill

Online Registration
Printable Pledge and Registration Form
Sponsor Team Abby

Until recently, Abby has had a very good year and experienced relatively good health. She is currently struggling with some new medical challenges and pain management. Rett syndrome is complex. It often takes time to determine the best course of treatment for the various symptoms that arise. Hopefully, Abby will be on the mend soon. She really looks forward to the Run4Rett each year!

During her first year out of high school, Abby was kept busy with her newly developed school workshops. They were a combination of a book study, accessibility education and discussion to promote empathy and inclusion. She visited 36 classes and reached over 900 students! As she's developed her confidence to present in front of a live audience, she's received invitations for other speaking engagements. She continues to work on her literacy skills to become a more fluent communicator. Abby has really enjoyed this leadership role and hopes to continue offering the workshops for more school children.

Abby is determined to raise awareness about physical accessibility and she was honoured to be chosen as a Youth Accessibility Leader for the federal government's Enabling Accessibility Fund. This will involve some work in the fall to identify potential community projects to suggest for accessibility funding.

One of Abby's goals is to work with senior citizens and another is to be involved in creating art work. With the help of a facilitator, this year, she will be leading a series of art workshops at a retirement home in the community.

We continue to believe in O.R.S.A.'s mission to ensure that individuals with Rett syndrome are enabled to achieve their full potential and enjoy the highest possible quality of life. While we support Abby's work to create a meaningful life for herself, we recognize that there is still no useful treatment to alleviate the complex symptoms of Rett syndrome. This year, O.R.S.A. awarded $150,000 in research grant funding to scientists in Canada to investigate Rett syndrome. O.R.S.A. continues to fund three medical clinics in Ontario. And we look forward to the next O.R.S.A. conference in the spring where we have a chance to learn more from experts and network with other families, doctors and researchers. All of the funding for O.R.S.A. comes from donations.

Thank you for your support!

Saturday, October 6, 2018

Not Back to School

After 5 years of high school, Abby is finished school! We are relieved to be past much of the long, complex process of obtaining government funding for Abby to lead a meaningful adult life with the personal support she needs to help with her activities of daily living.

We've had a lot of people interested and confused about what happens next for Abby, so I here's my attempt to share the planning and the vision. September is always a time for back-to-school talk and most conversations about Abby have come down to the question, "Well, what is she doing now?" (It does make me feel for all the young people who don't have a solid, detailed life plan went leaving school.)

I've been interested lately in the connection between culture and language. I think one reasons we find it hard to conceptualize Abby's life for people is that we haven't yet become accustomed to the language of self-determination for individuals with complex disabilities. 

The Ontario Independent Facilitation Network has some really helpful information on the context for self-determination and the concept of person-directed planning: "People with developmental disabilities and their families needed to be able to think and plan beyond the limits and boundaries of congregated services and programs that have historically been developed."

We live in a time where most large institutions for individuals with developmental disabilities have been closed and there is more choice about models for living in the community, but there are still thousands of adults waiting for funding and living in sub-optimal conditions. Among the choices, individuals and families can still opt for congregated day programs, if space and funding is available, but we wanted to explore more for Abby and we wanted the choices and decisions to be hers.

Several months ago, we hired an independent facilitator to help with Abby's dreaming and planning. Part of the process was to help Abby realize she was allowed to dream and ask for the moon and we would do what we could to support her dreams and goals.

With the help of a facilitator, we invited people from a variety of aspects of Abby's life to come together in a Circle of Care for some facilitated brainstorming about what Abby loves to do and what we love about Abby and what gifts Abby has to share with the world.

Abby has a lot of wonderful people in her circle! We came up with an incredibly long list of ideas and themes. Abby mostly just listened and giggled and enjoyed eating Skittles with us. Her work came next.

We took the ideas and made them into phrases to help organize Abby's thoughts. Then I created a "page" on her Tobii (speech-generating device) with the key words and symbols. When she selected a symbol, the phrase would be spoken. So, for example, when she selected "Rotaract Club", she would hear, "The Rotaract Club is a group of young people who get together to exchange ideas and have fun by helping others." Then, Abby spent time exploring the selections and learning more about them and thinking about what she'd love to do. It was important to allow her the time to think about her choices. 

Eventually, we asked Abby to make some decisions and narrow down her choices, all the while explaining that she was not committing herself to one plan for life. She was just choosing what to explore first.

Here are some of Abby's initial goals:
  • Literacy and Communication - continuing education on the reading, writing and software programs (She has been researching the candidates for the municipal election and reading Harry Potter and "Out of My Mind".
  • Accessibility Reviews - shopping and documenting opinions on accessibility, potential partnership with Stratford Tourism (She has been studying accessibility issues, has visited the museum to take photos for her first accessibility review and booked her first gig for school workshops about accessibility at the end of October.)
  • “Out of My Mind” workshops for Gr. 4-8 - read and prepare activities and questions to teach children about disabilities 
  • Active Living - swimming and walking, physio stretches
  • Entertainment and Leisure - Rotaract, Ellen, social media, art galleries, car shows, wheelchair hiking
  • Facilitated Art - partner with senior citizen to create art together in partnership with Gallery Stratford

A big theme that emerged was teaching. Abby loves teaching. She has many opportunities to raise awareness and teach others what she's learned. Some of her goals will provide motivation to keep working on her reading, writing and communication with the Tobii. She loves the idea of being a key note speaker or a guest on Ellen some day.

When helping Abby to apply for a Youth in Action grant this week, we had to come up with a title for her, so we wrote "Independent Accessibility Advocate". Maybe I'll use that the next time someone asks what Abby does.